I love these sorts of motivational processes. So, here's a great one I'd like to share with you. I'm always looking for new ways to enjoy the little things in life more. After all, that's what this blog is all about!
1.
Start each day with expectation.
If there's any
big truth about life, it's that it usually lives up to (or down to) your
expectations. Therefore, when you rise from bed, make your first thought: "something
wonderful is going to happen today." Guess what? You're probably right.
2.
Take time to plan and prioritize.
The most common
source of stress is the perception that you've got too much work to do.
Rather than obsess about it, pick one thing that, if you get it done today,
will move you closer to your highest goal and purpose in life. Then do that
first.
3.
Give a gift to everyone you meet.
I'm not talking
about a formal, wrapped-up present. Your gift can be your smile, a word of
thanks or encouragement, a gesture of politeness, even a friendly nod. And
never pass beggars without leaving them something. Peace of mind is worth the
spare change.
4.
Deflect partisan conversations.
Arguments about
politics and religion never have a "right" answer but they definitely
get people all riled up over things they can't control. When such topics
surface, bow out by saying something like: "Thinking about that stuff
makes my head hurt."
5.
Assume people have good intentions.
Since you can't
read minds, you don't really know the "why" behind the
"what" that people do. Imputing evil motives to other people's weird
behaviors adds extra misery to life, while assuming good intentions leaves you
open to reconciliation.
6.
Eat high quality food slowly.
Sometimes we can't
avoid scarfing something quick to keep us up and running. Even so, at least
once a day try to eat something really delicious, like a small chunk of fine
cheese or an imported chocolate. Focus on it; taste it; savor it.
7.
Let go of your results.
The big enemy of
happiness is worry, which comes from focusing on events that are outside your
control. Once you've taken action, there's usually nothing more you can do.
Focus on the job at hand rather than some weird fantasy of what might
happen.
8.
Turn off "background" TV.
Many households
leave their TVs on as "background noise" while they're doing other
things. The entire point of broadcast TV is to make you dissatisfied with
your life so that you'll buy more stuff. Why subliminally program yourself
to be a mindless consumer?
9.
End each day with gratitude.
Just before you
go to bed, write down at least one wonderful thing that happened. It might be
something as small as a making a child laugh or something as huge as a million
dollar deal. Whatever it is, be grateful for that day because it will never
come again.
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This is a wonderful post!Really makes me think of changing my own daily habits
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing :)
xo
Hillary @ www.thebrunetteshake.com